Attitude of Gratitude: Tips for Resilience From Qigong & Reiki Master Daryl Mitchell
Gratitude, in its truest form, doesn’t stem from mere thoughts, but from the stillness within. It’s not just a response to external events, nor something transactional that happens because we’ve gained something we wanted or avoided pain. It’s not about the ego’s need for validation or a mechanical practice of the mind. Instead, real gratitude is a state of being—an awareness that emerges when we wake up to the present moment, to the simple yet profound truth that life itself is enough.
In the here and now, you don’t need anything extra to feel complete. When you focus on your breath, on the rhythm of life that flows in and out, you realise that what you have is enough. Who you are is enough. Gratitude doesn’t come from having more, but from the awareness of the abundance already present in this moment. The mind, always reaching, comparing, and wanting, might tell you otherwise, but gratitude lies beyond the mind’s story of lack. It’s the recognition of life’s inherent completeness.
When you watch without thinking, when the mind is still, a sense of wonder begins to rise. This wonder isn’t based on anything outside of you, but on the sheer miracle of existence itself. You don’t need to achieve, gain, or become anything for gratitude to arise. It’s there, waiting, in the stillness and silence. When the mind is free from its constant chatter, this natural gratitude surfaces. It’s not forced through effort, but comes from the simple realisation that you are alive, that you can experience, that there is something rather than nothing.
Yet, gratitude is not just a feeling—it’s also a choice, a conscious decision to focus on the good in life, even when faced with hardship and suffering. Life, as we know, is full of challenges, injustices, and pain. It can be chaotic, disordered, and overwhelming. But here’s the thing: you need an attitude of gratitude to navigate through this complexity. It’s easy to be swept up by the darkness and consumed by bitterness, but gratitude offers an alternative. It’s a powerful remedy for despair and gives you a firm footing when the world seems to crumble around you.
Gratitude is the courage to look at the chaos, the pain, the disorder, and still see that something worthwhile remains. It’s not about ignoring reality or pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about seeing life as it is and choosing to focus on what’s working, what’s good, what’s in order. When you acknowledge what’s right in your life, you build a solid foundation that allows you to face what’s wrong. That’s why gratitude is essential for resilience. It doesn’t wipe out suffering, but it stops suffering from swallowing you whole.
This practice of gratitude is not passive. It should be reflected in how you live, how you treat others, and how you interact with the world. Simply saying you’re grateful isn’t enough. Gratitude isn’t just a state of mind; it’s a way of living, a framework that shapes how you act in the world.